I spoke to young widows about their first year and we all had similar experiences. You are suddenly single in a couple's world. It makes dinner seating difficult.
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And its not a bonding experience with other girlfriends in the way divorce may be. Death is universally acknowledged to be awkward. Jack seems perfect -- a hero at just the right time to enter a vulnerable widow's life. Widows are looking for comfort after a tragic event, like a husband's death. Did you have this in mind when you created this character?
It would be wise advice to avoid a Jack Huxley if you are feeling vulnerable or looking for comfort. Claire even says if she were lucky she'd have dinner with Jack and walk away non-plussed, that she'd find his narcissism a bore. But of course Claire wasn't lucky. She did have a dead husband after all, and so, she fell. I was interested in creating a man that every women could immediately identify whether they had ever met a movie star or not.
We all have these sorts of men in our head.
I'm often curious how authors select names for their characters. How did you choose Huxley, Jack? It's such a good question because a name can be everything and they are more difficult then one imagines. And, well, Jack is the name of all heroes. I love the idea of mixing fiction with reality.
So I wrote Jack as a character who was related to the real-life great novelist Aldous Huxley, who also had a brief but bright Hollywood career. I looked at Aldous' Huxley's family tree and it would be quite plausible that he'd have a nephew of Jack's age. Often authors project part of their personal experiences into their writing. Is Claire a combination of women you know -- not names?
Like all characters in novels they are both real and imagined. Claire is no exception. She then sets out to determine how to have a life while being newly labeled a widow. She lays down some rules she learns along the way, which are embedded in the book itself. Her sexual and dating encounters were always over the top, but having never been a year-old, h This book is dry and witty and I enjoyed it in a beach read kind of way. Her sexual and dating encounters were always over the top, but having never been a year-old, hot, newly widowed woman in NYC, who am I to judge?
Overall, I'm glad I read this book. Jan 28, Nancy Sharp rated it really liked it.
This was a hoot to read -- and I feel especially poised to render such commentary given that I, too, was widowed young in New York City at a time when every new venture reflected the profoundness of my seemingly singular experience. While these characters are extreme in their sensibilities, they are dear to hold. Radziwell is funny, funny, funny. She has written a real page- turner and I enjoyed every moment. Jan 13, Lauren rated it liked it Shelves: I like Carole Radziwill.
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I liked her writing in this book. It was funny and light hearted.
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I thought the main character was a bit whiny but she made the best of her situation. The story, though, got really confusing for me towards the end. It took time to figure out who or what was doing what. I am hoping though, that Ms. Radziwill will be writing more.
Dec 30, Sasha Strader rated it really liked it. There's a very different pace to this book than I had expected. It isn't a campy, laugh-a-minute chick lit novel or a mopey tale of woe. Frankly, I feel it is probably more truthful minus the celebrities to what a widow actually goes through than any book I've read to date.
I really enjoyed the protagonist's wry wit as she pulled herself to a new normal. Mar 26, Connie Weiss rated it really liked it Shelves: I read this book as a fan of Carole Radziwill's writing, having previously read her other book recently. I enjoyed this book very much and actually imagined Carole as the main character and heard her voice in my head while reading it.
This is a fun read even though it deals with death and grief.
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View all 4 comments. Jan 03, Alexis rated it it was ok. It was well written and kept me interested, for the most part. Although Carole is a widow, it is a fictional book about a woman losing her husband and trying to find her way.
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Il sessuologo trasmette peraltro non solo teorie. Un Giacometti, in un giorno qualunque, piombato sulla Madison e la fine del suo matrimonio: La nostra vedova emerge ironica e briosa. Niente lacrime, meno male! Dec 12, Kat rated it did not like it Shelves: I enjoy watching the Real Housewives of where ever after a long stressful day of work, its the perfect mindless entertainment, for an hour I don't have to think and can relax. However, it was much li I enjoy watching the Real Housewives of where ever after a long stressful day of work, its the perfect mindless entertainment, for an hour I don't have to think and can relax.
However, it was much like an episode of The Real Housewives, mindless entertainment, just not as good. Claire Bryne, a thirty something, is a widow. Her husband, suddenly killed, by a sculpture falling from the sky. Charlie Bryne, is a well know sexologist and author, best know for his philosophy that love and sex cannot coexist. We know sex didn't exist in his marriage to Claire, but it never feels like love existed either. Claire bumbles through her first year of widowhood, anxiously awaiting loosing her widow virginal cherry, going on many bad dates and seeing numerous therapist types.
Nothing really ever happens though and thats the problem with this book. It started out strong, Radziwell is a good writer, she is able to craft beautiful passages about nothing, it's to bad she cannot craft a plot with the same beauty. The novel starts strong and I enjoy her talking about how it was a beautiful day when Charlie died, bright blue skies, wonderful weather. Tragedies always happen when the sky is blue - and that statement feels true. The way that Radziwell discusses what each person who was attached to Charlie or the sculpture was doing around the time of his death and how all these events came together to ultimately culminate in Charlie's death was fascinating.
Charlie, despite his ego and fame, was one small part of a bigger story of the world continuing to move on. Once Charlie is dead and all we have left is his one dimensional unlikeable wife and her crew of unlikeable friends and dates the novel nosedives quickly. Claire Brynes has no depth, she never seems like a grieving widow, only a very shallow socialite who is more concerned with maintaining a social status and landing a new wealthy husband so she can continue to basically do and be nothing.
Her friends are just like her, nobody feels like a real person, the situations they are in are not relatable and the dialogue feels very forced. I will continue to indulge in Real Housewives episodes but perhaps this will be the last book I read by a Real Housewife. I received a free copy of this book from First Reads in exchange for a fair review After Claire's husband is abruptly killed by a priceless piece of art she not only has to readjust to life on her own, but she also has to cope with all the implications and stigmatisations of being classed as a widow. The married women in her social circle suddenly see her as a husband seducing vixen so they attempt to eliminate the competition by setting her up with all sorts of inappropriate but available men.
And as the weeks pass by and Claire endures one disastrous date after another, she After Claire's husband is abruptly killed by a priceless piece of art she not only has to readjust to life on her own, but she also has to cope with all the implications and stigmatisations of being classed as a widow.
The Widow's Guide to Sex and Dating by Carole Radziwill
And as the weeks pass by and Claire endures one disastrous date after another, she feels the increasing pressure of losing her widowed virginity. The Widow's Guide to Sex and Dating started off very quirky and interesting but it quickly went downhill after that. My main issue with the novel, and particularly main character Claire, is that despite the tragic accident that sets up the story there is very little to be found within the pages that showed she is grieving for her late husband.
As a sexologist in life he had a unique approach to their marriage, claiming that relationships are either sex or love but never the two together, yet despite his ideas on the matter she seemed to care deeply for him so it is peculiar that almost as soon as he passed away she felt the need to move on to someone else.